I still remember I used to say that I will never wear saree and suits but I will have to wear only because I have to hide my scars because mom use to say that my so-called husband respect is my respect.
If I say this to anyone
will society accept me?
or they will put all blame on me, i guess no one will understand me.
Don’t know how long will I have to bear the pain but I am your strong daughter.
(A letter in her diary which she never send to her father.)
She is a woman among all of us who thinks being strong is suffering the pain by keeping her mouth shut. It’s not always that she has been taught but few times we don’t raise our voice only because we think will society accept our voice, what about our parent’s reputation? But remember one thing, its your life, at the end of the day it’s your loss. life is precious, enjoy living rather than suffering in pain.
NO to Domestic Violence.
You are responsible for yourself.❤
First, stand for yourself and then give us a chance to stand for you.
When I wanted something and I didn’t get that (and yes I am talking about a dream or you can say a goal) and next what happened was more worst.
People around me use to expect from me alot, but suddenly they changed their view about me. I was called perfect but they started calling me a loser.
They started seeing me as a person I wasn’t.
They started feeling pity for me.
They started thinking, I have a bad fate.
I saw the real faces of people around me when I failed.
I heard words, which were exactly opposite of the words they use to call me. They use to call me best and suddenly I became the worst.
I heard people talking behind my back, that what will she do now, will she be able to achieve anything in her life, but I don’t think so she will be able to because if she failed in this how will she be doing anything great in her life.
I was like okay, seriously I wanted to stop them there itself at that moment. But I couldn’t.
Maybe I considered myself a loser too.
I still remember that day, I was crying so badly and there was no one to stop me because doors were closed maybe I would have done something wrong. Maybe I would have cut my wrist but you know what stopped me?
My inner voice.❤
I met the real me that day exactly I met myself.
She told me that you are important. Your dreams Goals expectations and failure are incomplete without you. You are not bound to them, they are bound to you. If you die today, those goals can be accomplished by anyone but if you live maybe you will accomplish it in a more better way that no one could have ever imagine.
That day made me what i am today.
A strong person now.❤
Even you would have gone through such day and see yourself you are standing strong now.✌
So don’t cry over your bad past and keep smiling ❤
I still remember that day, when I and dad were walking in our garden enjoying our coffee and suddenly my dad said, “you know naa you are my princess?” “And i love you so much,” I said obviously dad no doubt.
He said okay i wanna say something, i said please say.
See beta, you are my princess, but i don’t want you to be weak, i want you to be strong and brave just like that Superwoman in a movie. I know it was just a movie but i want you to play that character in your real life movie. I know life is so hard, but i don’t want you to cry over little things because your tears are precious. I feel weak when i see you crying over your failure or even because of my expectations.
Yes i am saying you take my expectations lightly i don’t want you to feel like that you are carrying a heavy burden on your shoulder just be free and fly like a bird.💗
I am there to hold you whenever you will fall. Remember beta, always stand for right, raise your voice against injustice.
Never allow anyone to rule on your heart and mind.
Love people but when that love starts destroying you it’s not love so just stop there itself.
Believe in two things and follow two things that are “Insaaniyat and Imaandari”.
I know you will not be able to do everything at right time sometimes you may fail, learn from your failure and again when the same situation arises fight back. Don’t repeat your mistake. I don’t want you to be perfect because few flaws must be there to work on that will make you a better person. So, i will make you work in the kitchen too, you will have to do work like your mom and be like her too, i will pamper you but i ll never allow you to be weak and sensitive.
Drugs are used for the medical purpose also but when the dosage increases or when it is used illegally then it’s Drug abuse which leads to Addiction and yes You will be a person who you don’t want to be.
Drugs are not cool it makes you look like a Fool.😎
How can something be cool if it’s exploiting you?
If someone is pressurizing you to take drugs make an excuse to leave.
Because we think to be first in everything we do is a sign that we are doing great and we are doing wonders.
Strange?🙄 Let’s be practical because whenever I talk about such things people call me a loser, they say be practical its important to be on top.
Okay so let’s be practical here.
What about Humanity? You don’t care even if you are last, why?
Yes maybe because humanity won’t serve you money or fame but happiness for sure.
But again let’s be practical what we will do with happiness, money is more important.
Morrie says, “Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness. I can tell you, as I’m sitting here dying, when you most need it, neither money nor power will give you the feeling you’re looking for, no matter how much of them you have.”❤(Tuesdaywithmorrie)
There is a difference between being practical and talking nonsense. Its not about at what position you are its about your dream, your goals, your happiness.💘
I don’t think so you too dream of being on top, you must be dreaming that you make your dream breathe at least. Coz frankly saying,
“Maybe you want your work to be perfect I want mine to be finished.”❤
Are you breathing properly or just innhaling and exhaling air to survive?
Obviously, you have a perfect answer according to you, you prefer saying “Yes I am breathing properly because I am inhaling and exhaling air properly.” (Biological Concept, A fact I am not denying)
Are you worth living?
You must be thinking this girl is so weird, asking such weird questions
If you think my questions are weird then you took my Questions wrong way.
Let me try to make you understand.
Who said breathing is just inhalation and exhalation?
This life of yours is very precious and important?
Haven’t you heard?
According to our Puranas and Bhagavad Gita, we need to undergo a lot of lives to attain a human form.
Lord Krishna had told Arjuna that our soul has to pass through 84,00,00,00 species in order to get a human body to live.
Such a long path to be walked on to become a Human.
Don’t you think after so much of struggle, Breathing just for survival is wrong?
Then what’s the right way?
According to me,
Breathing for survival with satisfaction and happiness is the proper way and must be your priority.💛
What we do today.
We are so much into people whether it’s a friend or a girlfriend or a boyfriend. We get so much involved in them that we forget ourself.
Isn’t this wrong?
I m not saying that spreading love is wrong, but even you are important.
Your existence is important.
Nothing is permanent in this world except few things which include your Parents and God.💝
Everything else is temporary, whether it’s friendship, love, everything fades with time.
Don’t you have experienced that?
If not then you will experience soon afterall its life.
Life is never so easy.
If a yes then you must be sitting in a corner of your room and crying for the person who left you, who broke your heart, and also due to advancement in technology, you must have kept loads and loads of memories in your laptop, phone etc.
Keep it I won’t say to flush it.
Also, keep the good memories in your heart, but don’t allow these memories to fade you, fade that brightness of your face making it look depressed and sad.
I am not saying you will look ugly,
I am just saying focus on yourself.
Don’t have any hatred for a person who broke your heart, who disappointed you, who left.
In the end, nothing matters, it’s just YOU, but the thing is People take a long time to reach a conclusion that “Yes I am important, I have to breathe for myself.”
Just take a deep breathe and say ‘by the time I m breathing properly, everything will fall into right place even if today things are at wrong place.’
He or she did wrong to you, you must not repeat it because there exists a difference between a human and an inhuman.
You are failing, you are disappointing people around you, it’s okay.
Just work on yourself continuously don’t stop ever, the one who stops here, the next goal is always suicide, so keep working.
Let them speak ill about you, let them make fun of you, enjoy the jokes, laugh with them saying “yes I am a loser”.
It’s okay and then just focus and one day you will shout and say ‘yes I made it.’
The crowd will be there this time too clapping and shouting in favor of you,
let them enjoy this too.🤘
Now, what’s the proper way of Breathing?
Don’t think too much, overthinking kills.
Keeping your body healthy.
Do what gives you Satisfaction.
Spread love and Happiness.
These are few ways to breathe properly.
Exhaling and inhaling is just a process.
Tell me, what’s the use of this process, if you are broken inside, if you are sleeping taking pills if you are hurt, if you are depressed if you are not eating properly if you are not enjoying if you are wasting your hours crying. What’s the use of this process?
Now the question comes,
If you are just surviving then,
Are you worth living?
Somewhere someone due to lack of that process dies but he wanna live more, explore more, enjoy more.
What are you doing to your life gifted by your parents and God?
Exploiting? Isn’t it?
Then are you worth living?
Think of a person, who just died because of the earthquake, he ran to save his life but he couldn’t.
What are you running from and where you wanna go, nor any building is falling on you, neither an accident, not even a dreadful disease.
what’s hurting you then?
A person, failure, unaccomplished goals.
These are the things which make you a better person, they come to break you, only to make you stronger but what you extract is just negativity.
Remember “Everything happens for a reason.”
You are not the only one who suffers, remember this always.
Life is not a competition.
And if you think its a Competition.
Then, Breathing properly, according to my definition, is your first achievement.
The medals are Patience, self-love, A healthy immune system, a glowing face, maturity, “I won’t quit” attitude, and most importantly satisfaction.
So now you must have understood my point.
Are you breathing properly?
Are you worth living?
Think once and if a No then, correct yourself. If a Yes then, you are on a right track.🤘
Have a Great year ahead.
Happy New Year 2018✌💕
I love you all.
Don’t forget to love yourself this year and Respect Everyone.💟
Sometimes things get so ugly, but the ugliest is eveteasing, it’s completely wrong and it’s not cool, I repeat its not “Cool” 😶.
The worst part is we are blamed for this, our dressing style is blamed, our winged eyeliner is blamed, our lipstick is blamed, Our heels are blamed.
Well I must clear one thing here from every girl side’s, Dude, we dress to impress ourself, we dress to look pretty but the reason is only “I me myself”, But “Agar abhi bhi samajh nhi aaya” then Don’t give so much importance to yourself because if you think I am looking Beautiful and Pretty for you😂 then remember I can be the ugliest and worst person you have ever met, if I shows my “Maakaali avataar” to you. 🔥
Don’t have you heard Maa Kaali is inside every women in this world. ❤️
Breaking a Heart is easy but loving a Heart always becomes tough , the reason is we prefer easy things over tough one’s.
Love is Pure. Love is Loyalty. Love is respecting each other. Love is taking decisions together. Love is caring and when we do this way when we are actually in love.❤️
Its not hard we make it hard or may be the situations but in both the cases its we who are at fault. When we fall for someone(falling for someone is feeling for someone ) , we don’t have to fall physically, we don’t have to loose our self-respect but at the same time remember don’t let the other person loose her self respect too, don’t let her fall too.♥️
I have seen love being always blamed, why to blame love? We have made a definition of love in our mind and we act according to it but love is meaningless and at the same time it has no definition because when two Hearts meet there is no definition to love. If you are in search of definition then you will surely be lost , instead of that search for a true partner who is as good at keeping a heart healthy as u are.❤️
What are we today?
A empty glass or a filled Glass, no doubt we are filled glass with loads of attitude, ego , over confidence.
Whereas love needs a person to be empty, empty but with time love and her lovable partner fill their glasses with unbreakable promises , memories, trust and most important love.❤️
We need to think for a refill. Refill in the form of love can be the best and beautiful thing in this world.
I have seen my Parents (touchwood) with no differences, with no confusion and Hatred. I have seen them struggling in life but as if those struggles were to make them understand each other more better way because they never give up , may be this is the power of being together, being in love, ruling together.
Love is beautiful.
And remember, as it was written, to love another person is to see the face of God.”— Les Miserables
I wish that someone so lovely comes in your life and actually fill your glass with what you deserve.
Because We all deserve love.♥️
I would love to welcome a exception here and that is in between all this , few people exist who believe in self love, who believe that they are self sufficient and nothing is wrong in that. They have a filled glass but not exactly with ego, attitude because Self love is important , if you cant love yourself how can you even think of loving someone else.
Let them love themselves by the time a person knock their door with few flowers, chocolate and his heart and propose her this way ” I love you I want your Heart to rule together with mine, is your Heart ready?”♥️
And thank you for reading and appreciating rest of my writeups ,it means alot.