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YOU DESERVE LOVE FROM YOUR DARKNESS TOO!💃

Everyone holds a little bit of darkness inside and in many cases, the darkness is in such an amount that it’s not only ruining their life but even not good for people around them. And i must clear, what’s darkness refer to here, darkness is that part of you, which you want to get rid off and you are trying but you are not able to. You are trying harder, maybe its too late or maybe you are trying the wrong way. That’s why I feel i deserve more love from the darkness inside me, if it’s not leaving at least it can be little nice to me. Isn’t it? Because sometimes this darkness act as a hurdle on our path and destroys everything.


Ask your darkness to love you and be little positive because, Sometimes things don’t fall for us, in that case, we must fall for them. 


And i know, now you all will ask me, what’s that darkness inside me, and i would love to tell you because there is nothing to hide in such cases may be someone with the same darkness gets inspire and motivated by my strong and cool vibe.

Well my darkness is, i am a big attention seeker every time and everywhere and i want people to praise me always if i am doing good and sometimes even if i am clueless about what i am doing and that’s so bad. Because sometimes it makes me feel uneasy, angry and lonely when things don’t happen according to me and i don’t want to feel this way.


Lets make our darkness positive and lovely. If its not falling for you, seduce your darkness to fall in love with you. Then it won’t hurt I guess.❤

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Happiness?😮

Out of 156 countries, India ranks 133rd in the World Happiness Report.Where are we lacking?

Whole life we are in search for happiness, We compete for every single thing in this world and competing for what? Happiness? Defeating someone is happiness for you?👎

Do remember the time when you succeed there is someone who fails.💔

Today you are thinking what could be the reason, then yes maybe you all are the reason, maybe I am the reason. I am not saying dreams, goals and love are stupid things. What’s stupid is connecting every single thing with happiness, whether its our dream, whether it’s love, whether its failure, whether it’s success, whether it’s our physical or mental health. 

Every single thing in our life is connected with happiness and that’s not bad until you fail, and not every dream come true, and same with your other needs.

And after so much of chaos, how can someone be happy isn’t it?

But wait, you have set some rules and regulations for happiness, happiness is something which needs no reason, its natural. You can be happy every time and anytime. But it depends on your priority, is happiness in your priority list? 

Check your priority list, I bet no one would have written just happiness on top, including me.💔

Now few will say to me keeping their own perception how can happiness be natural, i am happy when i get what i want.

Okay, that’s so cool, after getting what you want.

My question to you is how long your happiness last? Does it last forever?

NO.

If you will connect happiness with everything you do then ultimately you will not be happy all the time. Because many times things doesn’t happen according to us.🍃

Let things happens as it is happening.✨

Whether its failure, heartbreak, health issues, family issues, society issues etc.

But don’t forget to smile.

You don’t need any reason to be happy, what you need to understand is what’s more important,today or tomorrow?because for now we are doing every single thing for tomorrow and exploiting our present.

Remember one thing always, You don’t know what tomorrow might brings.

Let happiness be natural and real.

Live in the moment.

We Indians are known for simplicity and being natural, maintain that dignity.❤

HAPPINESS IS NOT A DESTINATION, ITS A JOURNEY.❤

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A WOMAN IN RAT TRAP?

Seema, an independent woman, with a bunch of good people around, parents, brother, sister, who loves her, more than she loves herself.

She was gifted an independent life, 

Her choices, her dreams.

After her studies,
She was asked to marry a guy of her parent’s choice, and she was completely okay with it.

Because neither she was in love with anyone else nor she wanted to.


She married a stranger.
She married a man, they chose.

She didn’t find that stupid or wrong until something happened.


Her first night,

She was happy that,

She got a right guy.


As she heard him approaching,

Through his footsteps,

Her heart started pounding faster.

She was hopeful of starting a new life, 

with a beautiful smile on her face.

 *But the smile couldn’t last long.*


He entered the room,

He stumbled,

Sooner she realized,

He is Drunk.

Her soul shivered. 

She had always seen these things on TV. What kind of things happened with the wife, when their husbands came home drunk. She soon crossed her fingers. Wishing nothing of that kind happens.

She asked, “how often do you drink?” with three-quarters of care and one-quarter of worry.


On their first meet, she had asked him, “Do you drink?”

And the answer he gave at that time, made her so happy at that time.

“I haven’t touched alcohol my entire life” were his exact words.

And those words were still running in her ears.

While gathering all the courage she could, she asked in her sweet little voice, “How come you have changed?”

Not giving a damn about her love, he said “I lied, OKAY? *Itta chalta hai *, as if you haven’t done anything wrong in your entire life.

She said, “its not about wrong or right its all about lying to a person who is blindly trusting you and marrying you. I trusted you, things wouldn’t have changed if you would have told the truth, in fact, a truth is far better than anything else in this world.”

He said, firstly I didn’t marry you for philosophical lectures, and secondly being a girl you have to do that, or you would have married a man of your choice it was so easy.

She was shocked,

He was completely different.

Still, she made her mind, no one can be as you want them to be.


But then he did something which made her realize.

“I am trapped, with a devil who can’t even be called a Human”

(You want to know what he did?)

(The thing she always worried about, the thought on which she crossed her fingers, came out to be true.) 


 He raped her.

Seema shouted and cried,  

“I am not ready”, 

he threw her on the bed.

despite her thousands No’s, 

he got sexually engaged with her, that was not love but definitely was LUST.

he abused her.

 Just like she saw on TV shows.


You must be amazed, like how a husband can rape, after all, he is a husband, her better half for entire life.


“No, you are wrong here, a NO means a NO, to whoever a woman says.”


She didn’t expected that on very first day of her new phase of life, 

After all who expect that,

But now she was trapped.

Like a rat in a rat trap,

 and there was no escape.

( Rat trap – is society who never support, people who think that women when is married to a man become her property.)


Will she fight?

Will she take stand for herself? 

(questions in your mind).

(Let’s see what she did next)


Next day,

She talked to her best friend,

Her best friend asked her to raise her voice.

She said, whatever he did was wrong, if you try adjusting, then what if he makes your life hell later.


“It’s not that easy,

and maybe I am not strong like all to fight back.

a sorry to myself”. Seema replied.


(Can you expect this from an independent lady, who lived her life on her choices? 

Yes you can, because sometimes, things that break us, are not that easy to overcome)

(Let’s see what was going in her mind)


Yes, I was independent, I use to make choices on my own, but marrying him was also my choice, my parents didn’t force me.

What should I do?

Should I go and tell my parents,

But then they will regret,

What will they do?

Will they understand my problem?

What if they say,

How it can be a rape, you are married to that man, and it is totally okay.

What if I ask for divorce, 

Will they allow me to do this?

What if society won’t accept me then?

Should I die?

No,

I won’t suicide,

I will wait for destiny giving me a chance for a better survival.

Till then, I am trapped, and there’s no escape.

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This was Seema, a woman, who lost faith in herself,
But I don’t want any other woman to become like Seema, go fight for what’s wrong. Today it’s you, tomorrow someone else, let’s stop this, a woman NO is always a NO, whether she is a teen girl, whether a Wife, whether an office worker etc.

Seema was not weak, those disturbing thoughts made her weak, this story is not to further demotivate you, this story is to make you aware of situations, sometimes which makes us weak. 

Everyone has a story, but I don’t want you to be another Seema, I want you to rise above all your fears.
I did not end this story, intentionally,

The end is in your hands. 

You must change your thinking, you must gather that courage. And stop all such instances around you.

Imagine Seema on a chair or on a bed tying her neck to a fan or imagine her wrist cut and bedsheets soaked with her blood.


Staying quiet on such matters is just kicking that chair.


Is that how you want this story to end? Your wish.


Make a right choice, 

Remember always,

Rattrap can be opened, Seema can get a better future, but the hands to make her free can be yours too.


To all the women reading this, I am sharing a  small quote with you all which makes me feel that ‘strong is beautiful’-

“I believe in strong women. I believe in the woman who is able to stand up for herself. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s back. I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play the victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart. -C. JoyBell C.”


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NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.🔥

I still remember I used to say that I will never wear saree and suits but I will have to wear only because I have to hide my scars because mom use to say that my so-called husband respect is my respect.

If I say this to anyone

will society accept me? 

or they will put all blame on me, i guess no one will understand me.

Don’t know how long will I have to bear the pain but I am your strong daughter.

(A letter in her diary which she never send to her father.)

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She is a woman among all of us who thinks being strong is suffering the pain by keeping her mouth shut. It’s not always that she has been taught but few times we don’t raise our voice only because we think will society accept our voice, what about our parent’s reputation? 
But remember one thing, its your life, at the end of the day it’s your loss. life is precious, enjoy living rather than suffering in pain.

NO to Domestic Violence.

You are responsible for yourself.❤

First, stand for yourself and then give us a chance to stand for you.

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ITS NOT ABOUT A BAD PAST🌼


​I still remember that day,

When I wanted something and I didn’t get that (and yes I am talking about a dream or you can say a goal) and next what happened was more worst.

People around me use to expect from me alot, but suddenly they changed their view about me. I was called perfect but they started calling me a loser.

They started seeing me as a person I wasn’t.

They started feeling pity for me.

They started thinking, I have a bad fate.

I saw the real faces of people around me when I failed.

I heard words, which were exactly opposite of the words they use to call me. They use to call me best and suddenly I became the worst.

I heard people talking behind my back, that what will she do now, will she be able to achieve anything in her life, but I don’t think so she will be able to because if she failed in this how will she be doing anything great in her life.

I was like okay, seriously I wanted to stop them there itself at that moment. But I couldn’t.

Maybe I considered myself a loser too.

I still remember that day, I was crying so badly and there was no one to stop me because doors were closed maybe I would have done something wrong. Maybe I would have cut my wrist but you know what stopped me?

My inner voice.❤

I met the real me that day exactly I met myself.

She told me that you are important. Your dreams Goals expectations and failure are incomplete without you. You are not bound to them, they are bound to you. If you die today, those goals can be accomplished by anyone but if you live maybe you will accomplish it in a more better way that no one could have ever imagine.

That day made me what i am today.

A strong person now.❤

Even you would have gone through such day and see yourself you are standing strong now.✌

So don’t cry over your bad past and keep smiling ❤

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A CONVERSATION BETWEEN DAD AND ME ❤

I still remember that day, when I and dad were walking in our garden enjoying our coffee and suddenly my dad said, “you know naa you are my princess?” “And i love you so much,” I said obviously dad no doubt. 

He said okay i wanna say something, i said please say.

See beta, you are my princess, but i don’t want you to be weak, i want you to be strong and brave just like that Superwoman in a movie. I know it was just a movie but i want you to play that character in your real life movie. I know life is so hard, but i don’t want you to cry over little things because your tears are precious. I feel weak when i see you crying over your failure or even because of my expectations.

Yes i am saying you take my expectations lightly i don’t want you to feel like that you are carrying a heavy burden on your shoulder just be free and fly like a bird.💗


I am there to hold you whenever you will fall. Remember beta, always stand for right, raise your voice against injustice.

Never allow anyone to rule on your heart and mind. 

Love people but when that love starts destroying you it’s not love so just stop there itself.

Believe in two things and follow two things that are “Insaaniyat and Imaandari”.

I know you will not be able to do everything at right time sometimes you may fail, learn from your failure and again when the same situation arises fight back. Don’t repeat your mistake. I don’t want you to be perfect because few flaws must be there to work on that will make you a better person. So, i will make you work in the kitchen too, you will have to do work like your mom and be like her too, i will pamper you but i ll never allow you to be weak and sensitive.

And I love you the most.

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WHATS WRONG WITH BEING NO. 2?

Being second never satisfy us why? 

Because we think to be first in everything we do is a sign that we are doing great and we are doing wonders.

Strange?🙄 Let’s be practical because whenever I talk about such things people call me a loser, they say be practical its important to be on top.

Okay so let’s be practical here.

What about Humanity? You don’t care even if you are last, why? 


Yes maybe because humanity won’t serve you money or fame but happiness for sure.


But again let’s be practical what we will do with happiness, money is more important. 

Isn’t it?

No.❤ 

Morrie says, “Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness. I can tell you, as I’m sitting here dying, when you most need it, neither money nor power will give you the feeling you’re looking for, no matter how much of them you have.”❤(Tuesdaywithmorrie)


There is a difference between being practical and talking nonsense. Its not about at what position you are its about your dream, your goals, your happiness.💘

I don’t think so you too dream of being on top, you must be dreaming that you make your dream breathe at least.
Coz frankly saying,

“Maybe you want your work to be perfect I want mine to be finished.”❤

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BREATHE ❤HNY 2018 FIRST BLOG🤘

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Are You Breathing Properly?

Are you breathing properly or just innhaling and exhaling air to survive?

Obviously, you have a perfect answer according to you, you prefer saying “Yes I  am breathing properly because I am inhaling and exhaling air properly.” (Biological Concept, A fact I am not denying)

Next question.

Are you worth living?

Confused?

You must be thinking this girl is so weird, asking such weird questions

Okay.

If you think my questions are weird then you took my Questions wrong way.

Let me try to make you understand. 

Who said breathing is just inhalation and exhalation?

This life of yours is very precious and important?
Haven’t you heard? 

According to our Puranas and Bhagavad Gita, we need to undergo a lot of lives to attain a human form.

Lord Krishna had told Arjuna that our soul has to pass through 84,00,00,00 species in order to get a human body to live. 

Such a long path to be walked on to become a Human.

Don’t you think after so much of struggle, Breathing just for survival is wrong? 

Then what’s the right way?

According to me, 

Breathing for survival with satisfaction and happiness is the proper way and must be your priority.💛

What we do today. 

We are so much into people whether it’s a friend or a girlfriend or a boyfriend. We get so much involved in them that we forget ourself.

Isn’t this wrong?

I m not saying that spreading love is wrong, but even you are important.

Your existence is important.

Nothing is permanent in this world except few things which include your Parents and God.💝

Everything else is temporary, whether it’s friendship, love, everything fades with time.

Don’t  you have experienced that?

If not then you will experience soon afterall its life. 

Life is never so easy.

and,

If a yes then you must be sitting in a corner of your room and crying for the person who left you, who broke your heart, and also due to advancement in technology, you must have kept loads and loads of memories in your laptop, phone etc. 

Keep it I won’t say to flush it. 

Also, keep the good memories in your heart, but don’t allow these memories to fade you, fade that brightness of your face making it look depressed and sad.

I am not saying you will look ugly, 

I am just saying focus on yourself.

Don’t have any hatred for a person who broke your heart, who disappointed you, who left. 

In the end, nothing matters, it’s just YOU, but the thing is People take a long time to reach a conclusion that “Yes I am important, I have to breathe for myself.”

Just take a deep breathe and say ‘by the time I m breathing properly, everything will fall into right place even if today things are at wrong place.’

He or she did wrong to you, you must not repeat it because there exists a difference between a human and an inhuman. 

Second is, 

You are failing, you are disappointing people around you, it’s okay. 

Just work on yourself continuously don’t stop ever, the one who stops here, the next goal is always suicide, so keep working.

Let them speak ill about you, let them make fun of you, enjoy the jokes, laugh with them saying “yes I am a loser”.

It’s okay and then just focus and one day you will shout and say ‘yes I made it.’ 

The crowd will be there this time too clapping and shouting in favor of you, 

let them enjoy this too.🤘


Now, what’s the proper way of Breathing?

A Smile.

Don’t think too much, overthinking kills.

Keeping your body healthy.

Do what gives you Satisfaction.

Love Yourself.

Spread love and Happiness.

These are few ways to breathe properly. 

Exhaling and inhaling is just a process. 

Tell me, what’s the use of this process, if you are broken inside, if you are sleeping taking pills if you are hurt, if you are depressed if you are not eating properly if you are not enjoying if you are wasting your hours crying. What’s the use of this process?


Now the question comes,

If you are just surviving then,

Are you worth living?

Somewhere someone due to lack of that process dies but he wanna live more, explore more, enjoy more. 

What are you doing to your life gifted by your parents and God?

Exploiting? Isn’t it?

Then are you worth living?

Think once. 

Think of a person, who just died because of the earthquake, he ran to save his life but he couldn’t.

What are you running from and where you wanna go, nor any building is falling on you, neither an accident, not even a dreadful disease.

what’s hurting you then?

A person, failure, unaccomplished goals. 

These are the things which make you a better person, they come to break you, only to make you stronger but what you extract is just negativity.

Remember “Everything happens for a reason.”

You are not the only one who suffers, remember this always.

Life is not a competition.

And if you think its a Competition.

Then, Breathing properly, according to my definition, is your first achievement.

The medals are Patience, self-love, A healthy immune system, a glowing face, maturity, “I won’t quit” attitude, and most importantly satisfaction.



So now you must have understood my point.

Are you breathing properly?

If not, 

Are you worth living?

Think once and if a No then, correct yourself. If a Yes then, you are on a right track.🤘

Have a Great year ahead.

Happy New Year 2018✌💕

Stay blessed.💫

I love you all.

Don’t forget to love yourself this year and Respect Everyone.💟

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DO YOUR BEST✌LAST BLOG OF YEAR 2017💝


Whether u have a Maruti or a BMW, the road remains the same. Whether u have travel economy class or business,ur destination doesn’t change. 

Whether u have a titan or rolex, the time is the same. Whether u have apple, Samsung or intex, people who call u remains the same.

There is nothing wrong in dreaming a luxurious life. What needs to be taken care of is to not let the need become ur greed. Because needs can always be met, but greed can never be fulfilled.💝

Short lines with a million dollar meaning –

“The life that you are living now, is also a dream of millions.”✌

Learn to love yourself, relationships, work, and other commitments need to take second place until you are happy within your own mind.💫

We know that GOD doesn’t require us to Be the Best.

He just wants us to Do our Best.

and HE will take care of the rest.💝

Happy memories of 2017 and a great journey ahead in 2018.💣

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TWO HEARTS CAN BE ONE. ❤️❤️

Breaking a Heart is easy but loving a Heart always becomes tough , the reason is we prefer easy things over tough one’s.

Love is Pure. Love is Loyalty. Love is respecting each other. Love is taking decisions together. Love is caring and when we do this way when we are actually in love.❤️

Its not hard we make it hard or may be the situations but in both the cases its we who are at fault. When we fall for someone(falling for someone is feeling for someone ) , we don’t have to fall physically, we don’t have to loose our self-respect but at the same time remember don’t let the other person loose her self respect too, don’t let her fall too.♥️

I have seen love being always blamed, why to blame love? We have made a definition of love in our mind and we act according to it but love is meaningless and at the same time it has no definition because when two Hearts meet there is no definition to love. If you are in search of definition then you will surely be lost , instead of that search for a true partner who is as good at keeping a heart healthy as u are.❤️

What are we today?

A empty glass or a filled Glass, no doubt we are filled glass with loads of attitude, ego , over confidence.

Whereas love needs a person to be empty, empty but with time love and her lovable partner fill their glasses with unbreakable promises , memories, trust and most important love.❤️

We need to think for a refill. Refill in the form of love can be the best and beautiful thing in this world.

I have seen my Parents (touchwood) with no differences, with no confusion and Hatred. I have seen them struggling in life but as if those struggles were to make them understand each other more better way because they never give up , may be this is the power of being together, being in love, ruling together. 

Love is beautiful. 

And remember, as it was written, to love another person is to see the face of God.”— Les Miserables 

I wish that someone so lovely comes in your life and actually fill your glass with what you deserve. 

Because We all deserve love.♥️
I would love to welcome a exception here and that is in between all this , few people exist who believe in self love, who believe that they are self sufficient and nothing is wrong in that. They have a filled glass but not exactly  with ego, attitude because Self love is important , if you cant love yourself how can you even think of loving someone else.

Let them love themselves by the time a person knock their door with few flowers, chocolate and his heart and propose her this way ” I love you I want your Heart to rule together with mine, is your Heart ready?”♥️

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I love you all.♥️