I have seen people struggling through their pain.
And when I ask them to calm down and forget everything they are like, “It’s not easy”, “It hurts”.
I know it hurts and at the same time it’s not easy. But holding that pain for extreme longer time is so stupid thing to do.👎
You are not the only one who suffers, may be you are experiencing something which for you is “Main Course” but for some of us it was just a “starter.” Don’t say to me now that I am comparing your Pain. It’s necessary to do this.🌹
YOU know what you must do one thing, It can be a way to get free from your pain.🤔
Start comparing your pain, in less time you will understand, ‘I was so stupid, crying over something, which was just a part of life, it came just to make me realize the importance of pain, importance of ups and downs in life’.
Life would be boring with the same phase again and again, isn’t it?
Now please don’t say that “it’s easy to say but hard to suffer.”
Well that’s true it’s easy to say and write but it’s so hard to suffer, but you know what, thinking this way has made us so weak that we think that it’s okay to cry over our pain, it’s okay to cry for a month or for a year because you have accepted that you have to suffer. Is this good for you?
You waste your precious time, your precious life on something which left you broken, which left you shattered, which left you in Pain, I know pain is important but for how long, the question is this?
You don’t have to take it along with you for a longer time, it’s not good. Everything has its limit, same should be applied on Pain too.
You are broken, you are shattered, you want to cry, you don’t wanna eat, you don’t wanna go out, you are sad, you are depressed, but for how long? Will all this satisfy your pain?
No, it won’t, it will increase your pain, your pain might burst, and that make you so stressed that you choose to die, it’s wrong, completely wrong.
You have to accept what comes your way with a smile, you can be sad for a minute or hour or even a day but not more than that, go check outside this world is suffering much more than what you are suffering today. It’s okay, it’s fine.
Wipe your tears, smile, take a deep breath and start again, a fresh start ❤️
I know you won’t disappoint yourself. I know you will fight everything coming your way, you are strong and next time when ‘Pain’ knocks at your door, welcome it with a smile, let it stay with you for a day or few hours (if you can manage) and send it back with a bye bye.
Love your pain but don’t hold it for longer time. 🌈
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