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ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH YOUR PAIN? đŸ¤”

Are you?

I have seen people struggling through their pain.

And when I ask them to calm down and forget everything they are like, “It’s not easy”, “It hurts”.

I know it hurts and at the same time it’s not easy. But holding that pain for extreme longer time is so stupid thing to do.👎

You are not the only one who suffers, may be you are experiencing something which for you is “Main Course” but for some of us it was just a “starter.” Don’t say to me now that I am comparing your Pain. It’s necessary to do this.🌹

YOU know what you must do one thing, It can be a way to get free from your pain.🤔

Start comparing your pain, in less time you will understand, ‘I was so stupid, crying over something, which was just a part of life, it came just to make me realize the importance of pain, importance of ups and downs in life’. 

Life would be boring with the same phase again and again, isn’t it? 

Now please don’t say that “it’s easy to say but hard to suffer.”

Well that’s true it’s easy to say and write but it’s so hard to suffer, but you know what, thinking this way has made us so weak that we think that it’s okay to cry over our pain, it’s okay to cry for a month or for a year because you have accepted that you have to suffer. Is this good for you? 

You waste your precious time, your precious life on something which left you broken, which left you shattered, which left you in Pain, I know pain is important but for how long, the question is this? 

You don’t have to take it along with you for a longer time, it’s not good. Everything has its limit, same should be applied on Pain too. 

You are broken, you are shattered, you want to cry, you don’t wanna eat, you don’t wanna go out, you are sad, you are depressed, but for how long? Will all this satisfy your pain? 

No, it won’t,  it will increase your pain, your pain might burst, and that make you so stressed that you choose to die, it’s wrong, completely wrong. 

You have to accept what comes your way with a smile, you can be sad for a minute or hour or even a day but not more than that, go check outside this world is suffering much more than what you are suffering today. It’s okay, it’s fine. 

Wipe your tears, smile, take a deep breath and start again, a fresh start ❤️

I know you won’t disappoint yourself. I know you will fight everything coming your way, you are strong and next time when ‘Pain’ knocks at your door, welcome it with a smile, let it stay with you for a day or few hours (if you can manage) and send it back with a bye bye. 

Love your pain but don’t hold it for longer time. 🌈

-Diksha Suman.

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EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU ALL IS BEAUTIFUL✨



Be confident with what you have, whether your face colour or your hairs or your body or your height, anything about you is beautiful.

and you know what, when you do this, first people laugh at you, but with time they accept you the way you are treating or accepting yourself.

Change their mind, change their thought.

Let realisation hit them.

A better world. ♥️

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ITS OKAY IF YOUR HEART BREAKS❤️✨

“Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is!”❤️

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One day something might happen which will hurt you, might be less or much more. 
What will you do?🙄

Lemme tell you. 

You will cry, you will not eat, you will not laugh, you will be empty.
Is this okay?

No other options left according to you.

But, 

I know it’s difficult, but the reason behind your pain is not so important that you will take care of it, even when it hurts. 

The problem lies inside you, firstly you give importance to a person, then after when he/she hurts you, you start giving importance to the pain gifted by them.

Who is at fault then?

You might be an emotional person, but being emotional and being fool differs.

“There will be bad days and good days too, few will hurt you, few will love you, take it as it is coming because it will leave a impact on your life and you too.❤️✨” 

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THE WORLD DOESN’T REVOLVE AROUND YOU.

You, Yes you. The world doesn’t revolve around you!

You have Friends, Family, Brother, Sister, Wife, your own children But have you ever thought what will happen when you will die?

Will the Earth stop revolving?

Will the whole world stop to mourn?

No! It won’t, the people who love you, they will mourn, how long do you think will they keep mourning? Forever? No!

Wake Up!

Let’s elaborate something which a wise woman said once (Note: women can be wise too!) 

“Sun will shine even brighter if you die

Everything will fall at the right place even if you fall”

What does it means?

It means being alive is totally about you. We attach with others whether family, Love, or friends to keep everything normal and at last everything ends normal.

For once question yourself,

What are you held by your past?

Why is it so difficult for you to live today?

Break the chains!

Set yourself loose!

You have the power to carve your own way. Why are you so afraid to live? For once live like you have never been before.

Live your life as there is no tomorrow! Who knows when will you die?

For once, don’t be strangled in the past, Live life the way you want, Do a thing without thinking, Try to laugh your lungs out. For once, Be free!

Why you ask me?

Because the world doesn’t

revolves around you!

🥀

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KEEP YOUR PROMISE BFF💜


What I see today we are too busy in finding flaws and faults in each other that we are left with nothing in the end.

Relationship, whether its love or friendship, two people have to understand and respect each other.💓

Let’s work together on our flaws, no one is born perfect and nor will they die perfect.🎀

Better be a good person before a friend or get lost.🎀💛

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YOU ARE A BARBIE, TRUST ME!❤

She was never treated as a doll, neither by her father nor by her better half.

How difficult it was for her to survive, imagine.😑

Still she survived.

She please herself, by treating a doll the same way as she expected to be treated.

How brave is she.

Afterall a women she is.💓👍

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Sometimes people around us don’t know why becomes so selfish.

They treat us badly, they never realise how much it hurts. 

Its like raising question on someone’s existence.

Is it fine?

Have you ever felt this way?

Have you ever felt people ignoring you and not giving you that attention which was totally yours,only because you are a Girl?

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You all are Barbie’s, don’t expect someone treating you as doll, do it for yourself.💓

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DONT KNOW WHY SOCIETY ALWAYS ACT LIKE A PREDATOR? 

Don’t you think so?

Whether its an animal or a human, the weak one’s are attacked first, because weak has no VOICE, weak is alone, weak is depressed.

My whole life till date is spent watching the weak one’s suffering.

Everyone wish to bring a change in this world.

Yeah! We are fighting for weakest section of society,

But still I see a girl raped not acceptable in society.

Still I see a child working in a ‘dhaba’.

Still I see a women rejected only because her parents can’t afford the dowry amount.

Still I see a girl being harrased and being questioned by thousands of people around, only because ‘she is a girl, she must have provoked’.

Still I see a poor sleeping with a empty stomach.

Still I see a person loyal to his work suffering and a corrupt person enjoying a luxurious life.

Nothing is changing.

Its getting worse,

Who is responsible?

Me sometimes, you sometimes and this society everytimes.

Weak is Suffering, and society attacks because it knows, ‘kamjor ko dabana aasan hai’.

But we can help them, help them by making them feel that their existence is also so important to this world, becoming weak is gifting your life in society’s hand.

Be strong.

-Diksha Suman.

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