We usually think that the people who attempt suicide are weak but we never think that they are the ones who were enough strong to dream, were enough strong to set a goal, they were enough strong to make sacrifices, they were enough strong to put everything that they want aside and act according to their parents and society, they were enough strong, but then what made them so weak, that they attempted suicide or even they thought of.
Throughout their life they never thought that being strong is believing in yourself, believing in your dream, is living on your own terms and conditions, is going against what society and people want and doing what they want.
Strong is accepting failure rather than dying, strong is accepting mistakes and correcting it, strong is saying sorry for whatever you did not to others but to yourself and then move on rather than hanging yourself or cutting your wrist.❤
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You know what troubles a person to an extent that they chose to die that no one will believe them, no one will support them, they are useless, their life is nothing but a piece of shit and nothing will be okay now.
But the things which were troubling them would have been okay if instead of searching for peace everywhere they would have searched for peace inside them and they would have definitely found it.✨
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But we are so lost today, we want everything from people around us, its high time you need to remind yourself that you are sufficient.❤
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Guys its never too late whatever you want from people around you start giving it to yourself, it won't harm you.🍃 Many lives have been wasted because of suicide but now be aware. You are strong and i don't have to remind you this because after reading this you will be your own reminder.
Because you are everything for you♥
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Everyone holds a little bit of darkness inside and in many cases, the darkness is in such an amount that it's not only ruining their life but even not good for people around them. And i must clear, what's darkness refer to here, darkness is that part of you, which you want to get rid off and you are trying but you are not able to. You are trying harder, maybe its too late or maybe you are trying the wrong way. That's why I feel i deserve more love from the darkness inside me, if it's not leaving at least it can be little nice to me. Isn't it? Because sometimes this darkness act as a hurdle on our path and destroys everything.💔
Ask your darkness to love you and be little positive because, Sometimes things don't fall for us, in that case, we must fall for them. ❤
And i know, now you all will ask me, what's that darkness inside me, and i would love to tell you because there is nothing to hide in such cases may be someone with the same darkness gets inspire and motivated by my strong and cool vibe.💪
Well my darkness is, i am a big attention seeker every time and everywhere and i want people to praise me always if i am doing good and sometimes even if i am clueless about what i am doing and that's so bad. Because sometimes it makes me feel uneasy, angry and lonely when things don't happen according to me and i don't want to feel this way.♥ Lets make our darkness positive and lovely. If its not falling for you, seduce your darkness to fall in love with you. Then it won't hurt I guess.❤
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Out of 156 countries, India ranks 133rd in the World Happiness Report.Where are we lacking?
Whole life we are in search for happiness, We compete for every single thing in this world and competing for what? Happiness? Defeating someone is happiness for you?👎Do remember the time when you succeed there is someone who fails.💔
Today you are thinking what could be the reason, then yes maybe you all are the reason, maybe I am the reason. I am not saying dreams, goals and love are stupid things. What's stupid is connecting every single thing with happiness, whether its our dream, whether it's love, whether its failure, whether it's success, whether it's our physical or mental health. Every single thing in our life is connected with happiness and that's not bad until you fail, and not every dream come true, and same with your other needs.And after so much of chaos, how can someone be happy isn't it?
But wait, you have set some rules and regulations for happiness, happiness is something which needs no reason, its natural. You can be happy every time and anytime. But it depends on your priority, is happiness in your priority list?
Check your priority list, I bet no one would have written just happiness on top, including me.💔
Now few will say to me keeping their own perception how can happiness be natural, i am happy when i get what i want.
Okay, that's so cool, after getting what you want.My question to you is how long your happiness last? Does it last forever?
NO.
If you will connect happiness with everything you do then ultimately you will not be happy all the time. Because many times things doesn't happen according to us.🍃
Let things happens as it is happening.
Whether its failure, heartbreak, health issues, family issues, society issues etc.
But don't forget to smile.❤
You don't need any reason to be happy, what you need to understand is what's more important,today or tomorrow?because for now we are doing every single thing for tomorrow and exploiting our present. Remember one thing always You don't know what tomorrow might brings.Let happiness be natural and real.❤
Live in the moment.We Indians are known for simplicity and being natural, maintain that dignity.❤
What you expected I will be depressed, sad, will compare myself, will cry why am I not like them?
Sorry but I have better plans.👅
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Everyone one has a stupid talent of comparing them and their lives with others in real life or on Instagram or facebook etc.
Lemme make one thing clear here.
No one can make you believe that you are precious and unique, that comes from inside. Start focusing on yourself rather than trying so hard to be like someone else. Why to be a copy?
You know what I do regularly for maintaining or building my confidence.
I repeat few lines 20-30 times in a day.
Yes, I have a beautiful smile.
Yes, I have a pretty face.
Yes, I have a beautiful hair.
Yes, I am loving my body.
Yes, I love my Heart.
Yes, I love my kidney.
Yes, I love my lungs.
Yes, I love my stupidity.
Yes, I love my dreams.
Oh my god I am so much into me.😂
That doesn't mean I am self-obsessed or selfish, this is self-love, no one can love me more than I love myself.❤
Love yourself.You are unique.
Everyone is different.✨
There is always something which you can do but I cant and there is always something which I can do but you can't. And that's being unique.❤
So don't get bothered by things happening around you, bring something new.😻
Don't make god feel like he would have been a photocopy machine seeing your tears for being someone else leaving your creativity and your spark.❤
Be yourself. One day people will love you for being you❤
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Being a bibliophile was not an option it became a solution to all my problems.❤
A few years back, I was so dependent on people for understanding me, for listening to me and that was totally a bad habit. Because not everyone can be available to us all the time, they have their own life. So when we become dependent on someone or something then we start feeling lonely when that someone or that something is not available for us. We feel we don't have anyone, no one loves us, no one care for us. But it's wrong. You are there for yourself.✨
Be around people but don't get dependent on them for happiness, for solutions. You can do this and in a more better way. Who can know about you more than you? Ask this question to yourself answer will be always YOU.😻
And you know what I use to expect a lot from people to be there to listen, support and love me. And when things were not happening my way I use to feel sad and lonely. But then I decided to make a change because I can't be sad all the time.
So I picked my first book to read and that was big magic by @elizabethgilbert and that book changed me. I wanna add here one thing, i hated reading once.😹
But, Then books became part of my life. Since then i haven't looked out for anyone to understand and listen to me because the books are doing that work more efficiently. I am loving it.😻It came as a solution to all my problems.And i know they won't ditch me.😸
Thank you to all books i have read till now and the list is increasing and my book shell is getting smaller now. I need to buy a new one.
Tag a bibliophile❤
It's Hard to live in an environment,
where I am always targeted.
Where I am a Prey and you are a Host,
Don’t be an eagle and make me feel like a Goat.
That time is not so far when a Woman
will be declared A Endangered Species,
Don’t get surprised,
because your deeds are not so Pretty.
The Day will Come when you will regret,
Because have you ever thought?
Your existence is because of a woman,
If she got extinct,
How will you keep your generation updated.
Think once, think twice even thrice.
Don’t ever let a woman feel ashamed of herself.
Respect her.
Adore her.
Let her be a Women with Pride.❤✨
(Just a reminder on a very special day)
Happy Women's Day sisters❤
You don't need any reminder, you are already so strong and brave.
Enjoy this day.❤
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I still remember those days, as dark as the night and I use to think this darkness will never disappear. It was tough for me to survive, everything was so tough.
It was like an exam and the questions in the paper were so confusing and were destroying my mind.
You must be thinking what i am talking about. See like everyone i also have many dreams and goals among that one goal i couldn't accomplish. And then situations went wrong I was supported by my parents but people use to taunt a lot. Even i was okay with that. Because i m a little different person. I don't give damn to what people think about me. What i think about Me is more important. But being a human it hurts when people taunt you on your face everytime talking about your dream which was important to you but you couldn't make it. But then at the end of the day i use to say it's okay let them speak, i won't prove them, never. I am not here to prove anyone that i am capable or not. Even i don't need to prove myself. It's life, it not a competition. But now when i remember all this i feel so proud of myself that i strongly faced that situation. I still remember I use to be happy in the morning, afternoon and people use to be like she is so shameless she failed and she doesn't care and at night i use to cry a lot because i didn't wanted people to get the hint that this girl cry. I don't know why. Maybe i use to think that people will make fun of this too. My pillow and those nights know my suffering, my pain which no one understood. and I won't say that people around me were at fault that time. Because they did what they were good at, criticizing others, making them feel low and depressed and then diverting them on the path of suicide.
But they don't know strong souls do exist.
See guys, there's a difference between saying i am strong and living as a strong person. Your every single part of body and mind is to be broken and this is done by situations in your life, failure, Heartbreak etc and it hurts alot but then you will have to pick all those broken part and make a new YOU, a strong one.Now, this new YOU can go through any pain because that new YOU have understood that being STRONG is the only solution.❤
